Experiencing without a Distance Desire
What probably happens in the experiencing of people when they don’t permit or seek any or hardly any distance? They find it difficult to be inwardly independent and to be self-reliant. Decisions are easily made with reliance upon others, they do not find it easy to assert themselves against opposition or to go on the attack. Their own, creative impulses and ideas slip into the background or disappear completely. This intensifies a chronic, inner insecurity (“Who am I actually?”) and a continuous and pronounced consumption of external stimuli (TV, internet, party, etc.). When saying goodbye or separating, fear of loss and inner emptiness are quickly created.