Living with Security
What is meant by the need ‘security’? Imagine a toddler who, when climbing a ladder, carefully watches to stay in eye contact with its mother, so that, in the case of need, she can quickly come to its aid. Here is an alternative list for adults: taking precautions, checking and also discarding ideas, learning important things on time and building up competences, making plans robust and having a plan B, being adequately informed, having and living according to rules and values, controlling where necessary, checking the statements of others, having routines, maintaining rituals, making arrangements, focusing, instead of getting bogged down.